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Cheating. Documented cheating. (advice for me?)
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Borderline, give us both cool down time? (advice?)
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Forgive her and ask for forgivence back evne though I did nothing wrong? (advice?)
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Split it off with her now. (scathing comments here please!)
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Thread: So when is it cheating for you
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10-13-2009, 01:16 AM #1Just a Customer, Not a Host.
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So when is it cheating for you
So my girlfriend got mad that when she took my medications and hallucinated and immediately fell dead asleep that I sat up all night playing Risen. Since she took my meds for the night to "experiment" I couldn't sleep anyway. She rolled out of bed at 4pm'ish and jerks my headset off (causing microtears in my two helix and a slight tear to my left lobe piercings) and screams "This is bull****, what the f***!" and storms out leaving me with now bleeding inflamed ears. I almost lost two 6mm balls which are amazingly hard to replace in this material and color. I let her cool down figuring she needs space.
She had a girl's night out "Bash Jay" fest with several friends with her cute little 16 year old sister dropping them off and picking them up. Said adorable girl immediately sends me like 17 messages on msn from her phone that my girlfriend is drunkenly making out with the cryptic "guy i know, but i don't like" line thrown in. I get she's mad I played on my computer for 24 hours straight. I didn't disturb her, I didn't Sleep Creep her for those who catch that term, I let her sleep peaceful by using my headset. I thought I was being a gentleman, considering my meds are regulated so hard she took what I had to take to sleep so I couldn't. I gave her space, I didn't try to smother her in apologies or pleading; instead I was bleeding. I turned down that 16 year old's invitation to come over and tend the wounds "of heart and body" because I like not being in jail and not cheating on my first solid girlfriend I was comfortable with.
Aside from taking meds, and taking my painkillers which I save for a friend who has trouble getting them and needs them more for her amputated leg then I do nerve pain, I took it all while drinking my beers alone. No calling my cats to come counter party or hit a club, no hate on her time. I played a different game as a relaxer while receiving the MSN messages so I read them in bulk even came with photos of the act in progress when she arrived.
I asked for advice on each for a broad perspective. I'm really in a quandary. I haven't dated much because of things like this happening to friends, and my own low self-esteem and self-image. So I need feedback. Help from anonymous people who can offer things I never thought of, wiser actions? I'm really torn on this as I have been 100% faithful even at parties where I could have cheated and she would never have known. So please, vote and advise! I may be 27 but dating is still a hard concept for me because of my strong independent side and some very hard walls placed to protect me I let down for her.
Last edited by AquaCyclone; 10-13-2009 at 01:23 AM. Reason: I forgot a paragraph.
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