Both are connected via a local lan and the wider net on 2 seperate nics (rl0 and em0). I need the traffic between the servers to always be on their respective rl0 devices over the 10.1.0.0 network.
TCPDUMP shows that on the one outbound side from the apache server that it seeks the packets are going to sql via the correct lan ip. However on the sql server the return packets are sent instead to the wan address. I need the return packets to direct toward the lan instead.
I have both IPFW and PF setup. I am not sure if this is a route problem or a forwarding issue with the firewalls.