There really is no magical combination that will increase performance to a noticeable degree for any particular setup. It depends on your usage levels, what else is running, etc. 512MB to 1GB is not a big increase. It would help to know your other details such as CPU and disks. Installing an PHP accelerator or caching app such as Xcache may do more for you than tweaking MySQL and Apache.
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