Thanks for the response.
I need PHP 5, because of PDO and XSLT.
I prefer it as apache module because I would like to take advantage of the php_flag (for turning off trans_sid) and php_value (for auto appending and prepending files)properties using my htaccess file (I have heard that it is possible to achieve both of the above requirements in FastCGI mode by using domain specific php.ini, but have never tried it).
PDO - I am using the PDO and MySQL for my database interactions.
GD - For a few custom graphics generation and for CAPTCHA
XSLT - I have started learning this, and have designed a section of my site using this.
Ming - Not required as of now. But I have plans for adding some features that require this. But when I am ready, I do not wish to move to another hosting provider just for that.
BTW, I will be sending a lot of email (not spam). Because my site has a greeting cards section and some parts of the site has features like subscribe to comments, email to friend etc
And what is your opinion about the Grid Service of Media Temple and A Small Orange?
Sorry for posting in a row. But there was no edit option available.
Can anyone plz recommend me a host that has a very good uptime and support?