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    How many sexual partners does the average man have in lifetime?

    LOL... okay I have an interesting question. I know this man (he's 47 yrs old) who says he has had between 50-70 sexual partners in his lifetime all from normal relationships.

    When he told me this I told him that number is waaaaay too high and that it is NOT normal and he argues that it is as when he was much younger he dated a lot. Am I out of my mind or is this man a creep? That cannot be an average number???

    Are men really such (you fill in the blanks) these days...
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    Are you sure that he wasn't OWM trying to impress you

    joke aside, probably he is lying to impress you. With that number he must have been with 1.3 women/year non-stop. Maybe he is including each and every women he introduced himself
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    No, I know he is serious. That number quite frankly grosses me out. I have known him for many many years now... very long time. When he first told me I didn't think too much of it but now that I really think about it... that number is VERY high IMO

    I am 28 yrs old and have only been with one person. Compared to him I am a virgin!

    I guess it's because my entire life I have only dated one person. I think I need to get out more!!!

    EDIT: No man in his right mind would "impress" any woman by saying that.
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    SO he has a higher risk of having STDs just by the numbers. Very impressive.......
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    Dude, that is a fish that got away story, or how many beers I had. Memory doesn't improve for this older gentlemen, and when the story is retold the # increases. Classic compensation for needing little blue pills

    Truly, with his number (50+ women) I'd say that he has NO relationship serious enough to be monogamous, or cheated alot which would make him a complete A-hole as you said. I may have had like 20+, but i never dated anyone for more than 3 months.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    LOL... okay I have an interesting question. I know this man (he's 47 yrs old) who says he has had between 50-70 sexual partners in his lifetime all from normal relationships.

    When he told me this I told him that number is waaaaay too high and that it is NOT normal and he argues that it is as when he was much younger he dated a lot. Am I out of my mind or is this man a creep? That cannot be an average number???
    Average? Probably not. Does it make him a creep? Who knows? 50-70 women must not have thought so. Or he's lying, which would carry with it a creep factor. But someone's sexual history seems like a pretty weak basis for judging their current character as a whole. Otherwise, we would have full disclosure of sexual history in job applications, for political candidates, you get the idea.

    Now, if those sexual experiences were a part of other forms of bad behavior (cheating and coersion come to mind, false relationships too), then judge the basis for the behavior. Is someone a bad person just because they inserted tab A into slot B a certain number of time? I hope not!

    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    Are men really such (you fill in the blanks) these days...
    We can be, but it's not like we don't have partners-in-crime and/or counterparts in the opposite sex. It does take two to tango
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    Very cool Frosty! I've also only been with one person (my wife). I'm 25 and we've been together since I was 13.

    Now, in terms of him being a creep for having 70+ partners, hell no. Sex is fun. If I wasn't married I'm sure I'd be out there having a good time!
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    I know many of people(guys and women), my age(25) who have had more than 20 partners, I have only had 14. But the fact is, we live in a different world than it once was, and its common practice now. Safe? Heck no, but you know, you cannot have fun without at least some risk.


    Anyways, it is no way to judge someone, and usually men do not brag to women about it, but usually other men.
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    Anyways, it is no way to judge someone, and usually men do not brag to women about it, but usually other men.
    My wife didn't know any hard numbers until after we were married. She specifically asked me not to tell her. All she wanted to know was that she was safe, which I could medically verify she was. Eventually the conversation came up and she didn't really have any problem when we did talk about specifics, because at that point it was just a number. But really, it's always just a number, and a poor basis for determining someone's worth, no matter how high or how low that number might be.
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    I don't see anything wrong with 50 to 70 women if you're 47 to be honest. 50 to 70 if you are 25, that's another story. As long as he was safe and honest, no big deal.
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    I'm 50. I grew up and came into my own during the 70's. For those of you who are of similar age or older it is easy to understand that 50-70 partners in ones' lifetime is not unusual. I wouldn't say it is an average of all men of that age group. But to be honest the 70's was an interesting time where drugs and experimentation and being open about your sexuality was normal. I would have to say that in the circles I ran in from my late teens until my mid 20's it was easy to have that many different partners. I would dare to say that the women I had relations with were probably just as experienced. JMHO
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    I've only had two parners where my g/f has had 6. Quite a lot less than 50... Sounds like a lot of 1 night stands to me.
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    Wow, I don't know. I can't even imagine being with 50-70+ men in my lifetime unless I were a porn star
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    Wow, I don't know. I can't even imagine being with 50-70+ men in my lifetime unless I were a porn star
    That doesn't sound like such a bad life...



    I'm a bit of a cynic, so I imagine in 30 years all of today's youth will be shocked when one of their peers says they've slept with a couple hundred people, because the rest of them will only have slept with 50-70.
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    Quote Originally Posted by the_pm View Post
    My wife didn't know any hard numbers until after we were married. She specifically asked me not to tell her. All she wanted to know was that she was safe, which I could medically verify she was. Eventually the conversation came up and she didn't really have any problem when we did talk about specifics, because at that point it was just a number. But really, it's always just a number, and a poor basis for determining someone's worth, no matter how high or how low that number might be.
    Good answer!

    But really, it's always just a number, and a poor basis for determining someone's worth, no matter how high or how low that number might be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    Wow, I don't know. I can't even imagine being with 50-70+ men in my lifetime unless I were a porn star
    May be its not too late to become one, i hope so!
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    Haha,

    This thread just gave me a weird flash black to Liam Young aka Oxyhosting and his crazy amount of sexual partners.
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    Quote Originally Posted by (Stephen) View Post
    SO he has a higher risk of having STDs just by the numbers. Very impressive.......
    It's "STI" now. Why? No idea.
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    Reminds me of the character Barney from the show "How I met your mother". I wonder if the guy is married now. If he is I wonder how his wife would react if you told her. I'm sure the guy probably went to the strip club pretty often to get laid 50-70 times.
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    I probably am your typical college student, I go out once or twice a week and stuff. Over the last 2 years, I've averaged maybe 1-2 new partners per month and no steady relationships. The number goes up quick when you have one nighters. Am I a scummy bastard ? I don't think so....
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    That was pretty much the case here. I've heard stories for the 70's.
    So coming from that era as a teen that number is possible.

    Quote Originally Posted by DaKine View Post
    I'm 50. I grew up and came into my own during the 70's. For those of you who are of similar age or older it is easy to understand that 50-70 partners in ones' lifetime is not unusual. I wouldn't say it is an average of all men of that age group. But to be honest the 70's was an interesting time where drugs and experimentation and being open about your sexuality was normal. I would have to say that in the circles I ran in from my late teens until my mid 20's it was easy to have that many different partners. I would dare to say that the women I had relations with were probably just as experienced. JMHO
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    Wow, I don't know. I can't even imagine being with 50-70+ men in my lifetime unless I were a porn star
    cool....I have a new camcorder

    let's do a movie lmao...

    nah seriously though...I've only had 4 serious partners in my life and I'm 42...although I've had a few...well more than a few pillow friends shall we say. (fortunately one of the perks of running a few strip joints here in the UK)

    These days I've been happily single and love it.. but would come out of retirement to do a movie with the Frost..

    You want me to send the private jet over to collect you babes ?

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    He was married for a few yrs. But nowadays he is totally different. He used to be wild back in the old days (did motorcycle racing and everything)... these days he doesn't drink at all... doesn't smoke... and NEVER goes out. He hates crowds and bars and also doesn't dance... at all.

    Now he only plays golf... and more golf... and a little more golf and watches TV.... mostly the golf channel!

    But twenties years ago I see it was another story
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    Outlaw Web Master,

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    like most guys...he's just settled down and seems content these days.

    but don't tell him about the electrical appliances in your house or the spooky goings on...with glass breaking etc.

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