Although you say you have problems connecting. If it connects, but then times-out when attempting to view the folder list than the Secure FTP server on your Windows box may not support the 'FETCH' command. If so try disabling this option on your FTP client.
As I say, just a hunch that maybe of some help. Good luck!
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