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    when do you find love?

    title says it all really...


    when do you find love? how old were you when you found...the one.

    im just itching to find sum1 but...i dont know...guess im just too ugly. im only in my early 20's but I just want to settle down im not a party, party, type of person.

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    By accident. I was 18 at the time. Been and still am with her for over 3 years now.

    Just don't go looking for it - you won't find it. Let it come to you

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    Love can be found anywhere at any time, but for 'the one' you need to have:
    fate, God, or some other force on your side.
    Love I first found at about 15, by 24 I found 'the one', 27 years later, she's still 'the one'.
    and now, my son is in the same shoes as you.
    I might add that 'Weddings' can be good places to find Love.

    Good luck, it can be a bumpy ride, but enjoy it.
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    Youre in the same situation that I'm in except I'm 26 now...

    Then again, I dont go anywhere so...

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    Found it when I was 16. Now, we're currently engaged.
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    Its not love until you're over 30. Anything before then is just infatuation and will die a horrible and painful death...leaving you to question God and why he put you on this Earth to suffer so.

    Erm...I'm not bitter. Really.

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    Crikey Tina, don't spoil it for the youngins!
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    Quote Originally Posted by AH-Tina View Post
    Its not love until you're over 30. Anything before then is just infatuation and will die a horrible and painful death...leaving you to question God and why he put you on this Earth to suffer so.

    Erm...I'm not bitter. Really.

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    I was 23 years old I met my real love....
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    i end up finding someone every winter. this year I found two. Oh, the plight of being mike bailey...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ub3r View Post
    i end up finding someone every winter. this year I found two. Oh, the plight of being mike bailey...
    How many so far??

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    whenever you find someone you will do anything for =]!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MGCJerry View Post
    Youre in the same situation that I'm in except I'm 26 now...

    Then again, I dont go anywhere so...
    I know that feeling I dont really go out much either if im honest. sad I know but I dont see the point. everyone wants to start a random fight with you or if you accidendtly look at sum1 they think your "starting on them" i dunno maybe I guess I live in a rough and lonley naighbourhood. lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ub3r View Post
    i end up finding someone every winter. this year I found two. Oh, the plight of being mike bailey...
    so instead of your left hand, now you have both?
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    Let's see....I was 17....and then 20....and then 26...and then 28....hmm...I'm seeing a pattern here... hahah
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dougy View Post
    so instead of your left hand, now you have both?
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    yeah dougy....like kneeling on the left hand till it cramps up (pins and needles)...therefore it'd at least feel a little more strange

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    I believe love finds you, and if you are looking for it, it will hide.
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    I was 16. Will be 5 years this February.

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    I found love the day I picked up and played my first Les Paul Custom

    I fall head over heels in love with nice guitars quite easily.


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    I found my love at the Age of 27 :-). We do not need to find love, it happens on its own. You just need to go with the flow of life. This is my personal view. I am sure you all will have different views.
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    Fallen in love with work, I am still looking for a relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by infinite_in View Post
    Fallen in love with work.
    Yea, me too. :-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by blessen View Post
    I found my love at the Age of 27 :-). We do not need to find love, it happens on its own. You just need to go with the flow of life. This is my personal view. I am sure you all will have different views.
    what happened their then? were you friends with the person for a while then it just 'happened'?

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    I was 16..
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    I've known my girlfriend for all my life, we've been great friends. I moved away from Maine, in which she lived/lives, when I was 3, however always came back during the summer for 1-2 months. Last summer, we both discovered that we liked each other, and Dec 29th was our 6-month "anniversary". Some may say it won't last, but this relationship is different than any other one I've ever had, I've had one thats lasted 5 months before, and this just feels way different. I think/hope she is "the one". I suppose one thing thats different is that she accepts me for who I am - very in to computers, probably too much, I don't always say the right thing, I don't always do the right thing, but she still loves me, which is what I believe is going to make us last, her ability to accept who I am, and my ability to accept who she is.
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    Haven't found one yet.

    I'm 20, and I too am not really the party type, although I do love having fun, so parties are good sometimes. If you're in low 20s, you shouldn't be in any rush. Have fun while you can, once you get married, well you'll still have fun, just not same type of fun.

    Quote Originally Posted by Outlaw Web Master View Post
    I found love the day I picked up and played my first Les Paul Custom

    I fall head over heels in love with nice guitars quite easily.


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    I would too if A. I practiced more, and B. wanted to spend over a grand on a guitar. That love is over-priced.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Flumps View Post
    what happened their then? were you friends with the person for a while then it just 'happened'?
    Nice question :-). We are married now....
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    http://www.webhostingtalk.com/attach...6&d=1198950113

    *hint* take a look at the reflection

    that's love
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    Quote Originally Posted by WHTer View Post
    Haven't found one yet.

    I'm 20, and I too am not really the party type, although I do love having fun, so parties are good sometimes. If you're in low 20s, you shouldn't be in any rush. Have fun while you can, once you get married, well you'll still have fun, just not same type of fun.



    I would too if A. I practiced more, and B. wanted to spend over a grand on a guitar. That love is over-priced.

    I got a 60s American Stratocaster and a 1954 Gibson Les Paul Goldtop

    NOW THATS LOVE! Passed down to me right from my grandpa

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    I wonder when will i find it ....
    Looks not so soon, anyways wish all the best who really found true love there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Outlaw Web Master View Post
    http://www.webhostingtalk.com/attach...6&d=1198950113

    *hint* take a look at the reflection

    that's love
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    is that just some random picture you found of the web or somthing ur wishing to share with everyone else their of yourself

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    I think i was 15 or 16 at the time. We hated each other and used to argue all the time. Now I'm marrying her, and I'm 19, hehehe.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Flumps View Post
    is that just some random picture you found of the web or somthing ur wishing to share with everyone else their of yourself

    That's Frosty...another WHT'er, who has managed to steal many hearts here!

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    I fell in love the first time I ever had a Sierra Nevada Pale Ale..
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    I was 20 I woke up @ 24, loving life again eversince
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    Women are crazy sometimes...

    I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years awhile ago because we just didn't have that feeling for each other anymore.

    I then went chasing for another girl but the problem is she is really shy and I can be as well so I end up chatting to all her firends apart from her and she speaks to all my friends.

    Then maybe every 3 weeks everyone I know meets up in a club in Glasgow, we all drink far too much alcohol and me and her end up getting together. Then the next day its as if it never happened and we are back to our friendly ways then another 3 weeks it happens again...

    Crazy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AH-Tina View Post
    That's Frosty...another WHT'er, who has managed to steal many hearts here!

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    I thought it could be frosty, I read a few threads awhile ago she likes to make pictures of her reflection lol.

    ....

    what are peoples views on age....im just curious. age doesnt bother me but im really bothered what people think of me going out with somone much younger than me.

    were not toegther were just friends but im just curious...what is a 'safe age gap'.

    is it wrong to be with sum1 thats 5 years younger than you? it shouldnt be she acts really mature most of the time and has some very grown up adult ideas of what she wants to do when shes much older, i know technically and legally its wrong but i cant help but find her really really attractive...if she found out i dout she would mind how i felt but I think her family would have somthing to say... grr why do I have to feel like this - i cant help it, i just wanna see her every day.....

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    You find love, you lose love..then you find it again..but only to lose it ...and so on....and so forth
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    Quote Originally Posted by Flumps View Post

    is it wrong to be with sum1 thats 5 years younger than you? it shouldnt be she acts really mature most of the time and has some very grown up adult ideas of what she wants to do when shes much older, i know technically and legally its wrong but i cant help but find her really really attractive...
    Its wrong. There was 8 years between myself and my ex (I was 15 when I met him) and we always said, the whole time I was with him "age is just a number" and "I feel older and wiser than 15".

    You know what happened? I missed out on a huge chunk of my life because I made a very stupid decision when I was 15 years old by being with him, and none of the adults around me (including him) stopped me. I'm happy now, by it took about a year of therapy in my later life to get over the rage and resentment I felt.

    Now, all the young-un's are going to chime in and tell you how its just fine.

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