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    the same girl over and over

    I apologize for this very silly question.

    Don't you guys get bored after shagging the same girl
    over and over ?

    no matter if you change positions and stuff,
    it is the same woman at the end.

    It is like a great CD. You hear it so many times
    that eventually you need a break. Listen to
    other ones and them eventually come back.

    It like your favorite dish. Eating it every day, makes you hate it
    after a while.

    No matter how much i love a person, I feel I need a change.

    It actually revitilize you.

    It's like taking a vacation. You still love where you live
    but going to new places is always exciting.

    I want to smell different odors, listen to new voices,
    different personalities, new points of view.

    Don't you feel you need to have a threesome every now
    and then ? I think we all need it.

    Sometime men need undevoted attention too.

    please don't come up with the line "you don't love her",
    "you are young and don't understand" and stuff like that.

    I would like answers from people that share my same emotions.

    You are free to criticize me and trash me, but please
    teach me something I don't know. Offer me an alternative
    of what I feel.

    i love you all.

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    Hehe I know how you feel...well maybe I dont.. I say you just take a month off...Then come back....or you could just put a mask on her...Not a good Idea!!
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    So go bang another female.

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    Well no I don't feel that way at all. If I did I woudln't have gotten married. I was married 25 years the first time and never felt that way, and with my current wife now for 3 years and don't envision feeling that way.

    My suggestion is if you are thinking like that get another girl and go shagging. Drop the one you are with and don't even consider getting married.

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    LOL

    Oh my... odors and everything. I'm pretty sure this belongs on alt.sex.i.need.new.partners.NOW.

    Why don't you start that one up.

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    PS, just curious but how old are you? Not asking to slam you or anything, just curious.
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    the mask

    the mask. that was a really great idea !!! thanks.

    Ironically, I really would like to get married and have someone
    to grow with. I just don't want to think about other women and
    stuff like that. One of the main reason I want to be married is
    to have children. I don't want to be 40 and start having
    children. If i do that by the time my children are 20 I'll be 60.
    Very old. Probabily I'll be on a weelchair by then.

    I have no clue on what to do.

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    Re: the mask

    Originally posted by tb1
    the mask. that was a really great idea !!! thanks.

    Ironically, I really would like to get married and have someone
    to grow with. I just don't want to think about other women and
    stuff like that. One of the main reason I want to be married is
    to have children. I don't want to be 40 and start having
    children. If i do that by the time my children are 20 I'll be 60.
    Very old. Probabily I'll be on a weelchair by then.

    I have no clue on what to do.
    Sleep with lots of girls like you seem to be hoping for and I'm sure you'll end up with quite a few children

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    You'll grow out of it... Sooner or later.

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    tb1.. word of advice, if you do plan to sleep around with many different partners... before you decide to do so, cut loose any strings you have with your current partner.

    From a womans point of view, the thought of sleeping with a man who is sticking his parts in another woman and then sticking them back in her is not the most happy vision to have, quite disturbing actually. I'd hope most woman aren't too free in doing it with a stranger too... if you are finding woman that let you even the first week... then I'd say strap on some pretty heavy duty protection or else you'll be hurting alot more than some womans mind further down the line.

    If you think your lifestyle for sleeping around will continue, don't ever have children or get married. Most woman that have hateful feelings towards men stem from discovering their father was sleeping around on their mother during their childhood. Basically, the mindset begins at father=dog -- all men=dogs
    A note on the term dog, take a look at the animal kingdom and how it functions. Dogs will sleep with any other dog that is in heat, as dogs (along with most other animals) lack the mental capability of restraint. Humans (although some don't tend to practice it as much... makes you wonder) have the ability to control most of their urges in order to function normally in society... just consider that maybe.

    Anyway, some men don't consider these things and always just want want want and who cares who gets hurt in the process. I tend to think woman think alot more than men do (however it varies, not everyone is the same)... it's a wonder we all ever get along. Depending on where you live also.. these things differ, so look around for areas that think sleeping around is the right thing to do and you'll probably fit in just right. Make sure to also do some research on that area... like disease control stats.. you might find what you learn pretty disturbing.

    Question for you... how would you feel if this woman you are bored of and "love" were to confess to you that she's been sleeping with alot of other men because you just weren't cutting it for her. How would you react and how would you feel?

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    "It's like taking a vacation. You still love where you live
    but going to new places is always exciting. "

    LOL. i'd love to hear you try to explain that to her.

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    *Pulling up a stool and waiting for you to answer Elena.

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    one way of explaining why u noobed the girl next door LOL

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    Maybe this is your first girl / first love :-)
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    I know alot of women don't like to hear this, but a man's mental makeup is fundamentally different from that of a woman. "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus" is a great book. Give it a read sometime.

    Men are, by nature, different from women. Women value intimacy much more. Men are affected much more by "visual" stimulus. Men think about sex far more often in a day than women do. Women may object to this notion, but it is a simple fact. Testosterone dictates that. From results of many many studies, men think about sex 5 times more in a day than women. It's just human nature.

    Women value security, safety, harmony. Men like risk, challenge, adventure. I'm generalizing, of course. But how else could you have a "general" discussion about human nature? It's been said that one of the main differences between men and women is that women marry men hoping they can change them. Men marry women hoping they never change...

    Men and women are just made up differently. In a eutopian world, this would not be the case. But we do not live in eutopia.

    I've been married 15 years and have never strayed. But that is not to say that I don't think about it. I do. Like all men. More so than women. That's just a fact.

    The day women begin to acknowledge the root differences between men and women is the day we all start to understand and accept each other a little more. The distinction in men is that some succumb to their urges, and others keep them in check. It's called discipline.

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    I apologize for this very silly question.
    Good for you.
    Don't you guys get bored after shagging the same girl
    over and over ?
    No. If I did, I would dump her first. It isn't fair to make the decision for her that she should 'share' in your 'trading of bodily fluids' with that of another.
    no matter if you change positions and stuff,
    it is the same woman at the end.
    Yep, which is quite nice actually. We know what each other likes.
    It is like a great CD. You hear it so many times
    that eventually you need a break. Listen to
    other ones and them eventually come back.
    I like a lot of the same music over and over. Every time I listen to it I hear different instruments that I missed before.
    It like your favorite dish. Eating it every day, makes you hate it after a while.
    No, eating it every day makes you appriciate that you've got it to eat.
    No matter how much i love a person, I feel I need a change.
    Then you should not be involved with some one in the first place.
    It actually revitilize you.
    Yes, sex does do that. That is one of the benefits of it.
    It's like taking a vacation. You still love where you live
    but going to new places is always exciting.
    So you like the thrill of adventure? Try doing it in different places. The car, bathroom, kitchen, sleezy hotel ect.
    I want to smell different odors, listen to new voices,
    different personalities, new points of view.
    Candles, music, movies and listening to your mate is a good start.
    Don't you feel you need to have a threesome every now
    and then ? I think we all need it.
    Nope. I can't imagine not know whos 'whatsits' is where.
    Sometime men need undevoted attention too.
    Yep, and you only deserve that if you are devoted enough to be a one woman man.
    please don't come up with the line "you don't love her",
    "you are young and don't understand" and stuff like that.
    Love obviously means more to other people than it does to you. Admit it, you care more about yourself than her.
    I would like answers from people that share my same emotions.
    Why so you can justify your selfish actions? Maybe your girlfriend feels the same way, but wouldn't dare cheat on you. At least give her the same respect that she is giving you.
    You are free to criticize me and trash me, but please
    teach me something I don't know. Offer me an alternative
    of what I feel.
    I am not a psychologist.
    i love you all.
    Oh goody. The same way you love your girlfriend that you want to cheat on.
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    Originally posted by dbodner
    "It's like taking a vacation. You still love where you live
    but going to new places is always exciting. "

    LOL. i'd love to hear you try to explain that to her.
    i would love to hear that be explained too...

    can we get the dialog to that conversation posted to the board? LOL

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    I can only agree with original thread starter. No matter how beautyful or lovely I always get bored... can't say I like it

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    TB1, I must disagree with Elena.

    Oh, not about what she wrote, in general. Just that, at first, I used to think, like her, that women were more 'intellectual'. But experience has taught me that it is true of SOME women and couldn't more more untrue of others. Some women could actually go lower for sex than any man you know.

    Now, if you want to live a live like that, all I have to tell you is: find a partner who thinks like you, be a "free" couple and nobody will get hurt. However, think carefully if that kind of like will be compatible with raising children.
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    Chris, I don't think woman are more intellectual... I just think most woman consider a little more about how our actions will effect others. And that's not saying all woman are like this.. only the sane ones. LOL

    It's a sad loop... remember what I posted about those woman who hate men? Well guess what? Most of those woman are the ones that are going to abuse and use men. Sometimes I think men who have that constant urge to screw everything with a hole must have some pretty bad psychological problems too.. tends to make me think of those freak shows you see on Jerry Springer. Can't say any of those people got to where they were without some form of physical or mental abuse sometime during their lives.

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    Elena which catergory do you come under? the sane or not so sane ones? lol

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    You can use your imagination though when you do it.
    Like fantasize she is Kirsten Dunst.

    Please do not flame me for this lame idea.
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    Originally posted by edude
    Elena which catergory do you come under? the sane or not so sane ones? lol
    I'd like to think of myself as pretty sane Considering I've only slept with one person and probably won't be selecting a new partner for a very long time...

    I tend to see that when people think they need to be with every living thing on the planet.. there is some mental instability at play.. obsessive compulsive.. maybe someone needs to see a shrink? heh j/k Roy has got the right idea, fantasizing and looking aren't a bad thing.. touching while with someone already is not a good idea. If the thread starter is going to be doing everyone he knows.. he best keep away from any type of committed relationships.. since that is not a nice thing to do to another person imho.

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    NOOO!! You cannot sleep around with all those women! That is MY role! They're mine, all mine!

    Seriously though, threesomes sometimes dont work out the way you expect. I tried that once and my ex-wife left me for that other woman

    What did I learn from that? If you do a threesome, make sure your wife isnt involved

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    Originally posted by Webdude
    Seriously though, threesomes sometimes dont work out the way you expect. I tried that once and my ex-wife left me for that other woman


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