I've an adult site that gets around 1500-2000 page views a day and I currently use Clicksor. The trouble is the amount I get is pretty tiny (24c for 1700views with 10 clicks). Can anyone recommend higher paying ad providers that don't mind adult sites?
You can also check out more listings here - http://xbiz.com/directory_listings.php?id=11 - note that you will have to visit each site to see what niches each one does but you should find plenty whatever theme your site is.
With adult site programs they either work or they don't. I work some that convert at 1:200 or better, some at 1:1000. The golden rule is to try them all. If you get nothing from one move onto the next until you find one that converts for you.