So, I have two questions; what could be the reason for a slowed down ps auxe output, and why would I be lagging when SSHing in some days and other days not?
That sounds like TCP retransmissions are occurring due to either packet loss or jitter. Try running a continuous ping test against your server when you have the lag to see if you can correlate the problem.
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