Dear, users

My name is Carlo, and i am from Holland, am a professional webmaster and used to make things, and than sell it to make some money.
But i've been doing this for about 1 year now, but i want to start doing this "international".
But my question is, how to get American traffic to my website without paying advert costs, here in holland i just search linkpartners and stuff.....
And enother question, are there any other webmaster forums beside this one?
So i can get some experience, just to see how other webmasters handle things.

Friendly Regards,
Carlo Dekker

( I hope i posted this in the right catagory, but im not sure )