You need to log onto the server using Terminal Server or Remote Desktop Connection, so you get to the server desktop itself. AFAIK there are no Mac versions of these.
How do you normally administer the Windows server? Is it a dedicated server that you have the whole of, or are you reselling Windows accounts? If you are reselling then you will likely need to get the main host company or datacentre to do this for you.
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