This definitely sounds like a troubling situation that I, personally, wouldn't tolerate.
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I didn't recieve any of those emails. I was just told by the office about this post, which they found out about from your email, hence the late response.
We have been working on the mail system. Spamassassin seems to filter even emails to addresses we tell it not to. Most people are happy with the filtering, a few arent because they use their own filtering software. Since I have been working on the mail system, specially since testing with my own email (the best one to use since it gets so much junk and easy to test), I had no doubt I would miss some incoming emails, though hoped not to.
Email is never 100% reliable, especially when you are trying to change the filters. I do apologize for the late response, and dont blame you for looking elsewhere. It looks like your emails did hit the mail server if you got a response, but wasnt ever dropped into my box.