my 20th next week :~
awwww probably not having a party myself -- the big one's next year
this year.. on my bday night(thursday) will probably just go out to dinner and a movie with my girl, also that day is our work xmas party.. free food/drinks hmm ?
on the friday night .. i have my girls graduation from beauty college

at some function room, so not much that night also.
saturday night - will be out with some close friends at some random pubs/clubs i would think!
i would say thats about all.
celebrate with the people you want to, after all it is your day!
see my bday spands over 3 days this year, because of it being on a week night
