It sounds to me like you need a fully managed server, or to hire a server administrator.
Beyond that, you should perhaps Google "mlocate" and "locate" if you really want to find it on your own, as I'm not entirely sure exactly which file you're after.
There is /etc/ssh/sshd_conf and /etc/ssh/ssh_conf from memory on CentOS 5.
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