i am looking for a payment solution that can deposit my money to a non-us bank account. that i can later withdraw the cash. (Barbados to be specific)

You might want to try an offshore merchant account. There are many solutions to choose from.

you have 3rd party options like 2checkout, if you qualify you can get also merchant account

Try paypal or Moneybookers.

We used Moneybookers before. Their system is more secure than all of other payment gateways(no charge backs). But their comissions was expensive and making payments of buyers are very hard(required phone verification). I recommend Paypal for low comissions and easy to use.

Try paypal or Moneybookers.

can i store funds in a local bank with paypal??

can i store funds in a local bank with paypal??

it depend if your country is supported. check https://www.paypal.com/worldwide/

Are you looking for offshore payment gateway processing payments your site and later deposit to your Barbados IBC company ?

We used Moneybookers before. Their system is more secure than all of other payment gateways(no charge backs). But their comissions was expensive and making payments of buyers are very hard(required phone verification). I recommend Paypal for low comissions and easy to use.

If you have merchant account with Moneybookers your clients can pay instantly using credit / debit card. Moneybookers is the most secure among all.

Are you looking for offshore payment gateway processing payments your site and later deposit to your Barbados IBC company ?

this is exactly what i am looking for

and i cant use paypal cause i need to be in the us and have an account there