It looks like females are always there when you have money, not all but some. But those females that are there when it is there always wants you to spend spend spend, and get nnothing in return. here is an image for you visual people:
They lead you to the door, the let you put your foot in and then slam the door on your foot.

But I like this girl I am with, she is so pretty, nice, but has that atitude of not letting people push her around, she is so incrediably smart, and has those blue eyes that when posed the right way make you want not to say no.

The point of this post is right now i am making a CD she asked for.

Chris

P.S. I now have a new thing in my life!!!

Well hopefully things will continue to be good.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by TheComputerGuy
It looks like females are always there when you have money, not all but some. But those females that are there when it is there always wants you to spend spend spend, and get nnothing in return. [QUOTE]


that reminds me of ... :bawling: :bawling:

Hopefully it will too. Skating tonight, we will see how that goes?! :)

ahhhhh.......young love!!! I remember those days :) I'm an old married man now :D

Good luck Chris,
I'm kind of in the nether land - neither young enough for first loves nor old enough to get married. But then, it reminds me of *those* days.

It also reminds me of a jingle for "Amul Chocolates" - a co-operative milk dairy for the benefit of farmers found by some man named "Anand" in the state of Gujarat, India. (Indian equivalent of Hersheys or Mars with an equal legend - but it is a co-operative for the dairy farmers, not a purely commercial venture, now backed by the Govt, and they make all kinds of dairy products you can think of, not just chocolates. http://www.amul.com).

The jingle goes like (sing it to the right tune if you've heard it)

Female: "I'm too old for mini skirts and too young to be a grandma".
Male: "But I think you're just right for Amul chocolates".
Some male narrator voice in the background: "Amul chocolates - the gift for someone you love".

Nostalgia, what do I say.

Someday, some years later, I too would buy Amul Chocolates for someone.

And Good Luck Chris.

Ciao,
Wing.

Originally posted by tabernack
ahhhhh.......young love!!! I remember those days :) I'm an old married man now :D

Yeeeeeeeeup... unmarried life? Just a memory now, heh! I knows the feelin' tabinator...

the girl I went skating with I dont technically go out with. Here is the thing now:
I told her i liked her via AIM, I had to go when i told her my mistake.
Then the next day she acts all happy, and I get to walk her to all of her classes and start to walk to her car. Think I should ask her out,
@@@note@@@@
We are going skating again this Friday, that is where she says she gets her stress out, plus she wants to see me fall on my butt again.

What do you folks think?

See what happens when your title changes here..!!!
I never posted anything like this before that NO LIFE post.

You told her you liked her via AIM? Oh, bad call :o Why not just ask her out over AIM too? It'll reduce the embaracement when she says no :)

Just kidding...

Well she asked me what was bothering me, so I told her

Well, things might turn out better....

Well I'm glad SOMEBODY around here has plans for Friday night.

Me, I'll be sleeping. :) With my lovely felines.

B.

Well they are a start, she now thinks I asker her out on AIM, that is so wrong I would never do that, that is so lousy.

I never plan my week out..... except when there is something important....

Well she likes to plan it out.

I finally got the nerves to ask the girl out today!!!
She wrote me a note back and gave it to me when we saw each other next.

She said something like this,:
"Chris,
I have to give you credit, i never thought you would get the nerve up to ask me in person. But I have never thought of you anyting more than a friend. Besides you would not want to go with me anyway, I am easy to get tired of. If I were looking for any type of relationship, it would be one that must be strong, and long term. I would prob. dump you one day and I would lose you as a friend, like I have lost many others. You may say i took the easy way out by writing this letter, but it helps me get my ideas out and address all the conflicts you may throw at me. I hope respect my decision and are not angry at me.
Thanks
Girls NAME

Hmmmmmm.... Mr. Cupid, You just chipped me out of a good time.

Actually me and her were planning to go skating again tonight, she loves it, and well I am thinking of not going, but if I really am her friend I should go, but despite it I am :( .

I also feel very relieved I got it over with, and now can say I had the courage to do it. Does anyone have any commment?

[Edited by TheComputerGuy on 04-06-2001 at 04:31 PM]

You've got more courage than I do......

Well, just a couple of comments. First, often these things develop, and you might find yourself being asked out by *her* some day in the future.

This stuff just happens. Often, not when you want it to, but when you are least expecting it. There's no rhyme or reason to it, and don't think it is *you* because although it *is* (OR SEEMS TO BE), there's nothing you can do about it.

In my experience, it doesn't matter how beautiful the girl is, how much money she has, nor what she does for a living. It either clicks or it doesn't. I've dated women who were over 10 years older than me that I met on an airplane, women who made close to $100K/yr. when I was broke and didn't have a job, young ones, etc. It doesn't matter.

It is *you* they will like, and sometimes people don't notice what they like/dislike about a person until they get to know them.

I'd go for two reasons:

One, it might take time to get this going, and you might discover than you really don't like her as much as you thought you did. Two, it gets you out of the house and off the computer. Three, you might meet the girl of your dreams there (not her), who *does* like you. Four, even if it doesn't work out with her, she might have a friend :)

Ok, so that's four reasons, I kept on thinking, heh.

You never know what will happen, but that's what life is all about.

Well I went just to let you all know,
She was there to meet some guy, her ex. She had made a statement in a group of folks when I was there, "I need a dude", again $H@$ so I made the statment about the difference between a "dude" and a man this is makeing me mad. Well I thought #$@EW this, so I found another girl and had a pretty decent time, well at the last 20 minutes, the girl that REJECTED me asked me to go over to the bowling alley and see if the guy was over there, what the world, I told her I was about to leave, and well I guess I showed a little disgust in that and all so I think she smiled and I told her I doubt I would come back to the place due to the few folks I know there.

Chicken, I did fall on my @$$ it was funny
JTY, Me courage well I think if you are going to do something, do it right or not at all.

eeks.... that gurl has some courage..

Well we talk after I made that last post last night, and she finally realized I didnt have a good time,
"I was so into anlazing my problem, that I didn't even realize you weren't having a good time"

Why did she feel she had to use analyze, to impress me, because she knows I use the on the occasion, man back the original motto, GIRLS ARE HARD TO UNDERSTAND.

Originally posted by TheComputerGuy
GIRLS ARE HARD TO UNDERSTAND.

You can say that again... im happy single ;) im freeeeeee :) a true democrat...

Kunal,

As my friend says, SMG = Single Mens Guild......

Kunal I would not say Democrat too much around here.

As far as being free I am too.

JTY I cant follow that advice.

Originally posted by TheComputerGuy
Kunal I would not say Democrat too much around here.


why not?? :confused:

Well I think when politics are mentioned it brings out the worst in people sometimes.

hmmmmmm... true true

Well this girl is now sad, rember that guy she was supposedly wanted to meet, he nevered showed, and well she has been so sad about it all weekend.

I am thinking I should start a site for love problems, you know maybe a board, if anyone wants to communicate and maybe helpout let me know.

thats a good idea :) i could help :)

I'll help in whatever way I can.....