Well, just read the subject! I've been using virtual hosting for a long time, but I've really outgrown it at this point, having about 35-40 domains and longing for the ability to set-up my own accounts instead of waiting for days until my host does it for me. The problem is that I'm completely clueless when it comes to servers. My question basically is this: is it easy to administer a dedicated server (let's say a Cobalt RaQ3) for basic tasks like adding a new domain? Do I need a month long tutorial or can I just jump right in?

Also, is there anyone out there who has a deal similar to rackshack.net BUT allows some VERY MILD adult content? Half of my projects are non-adult, the other half is not exactly shocking, but I wouldn't show it to my mom. :) The problem is that many hosts still discriminate against what they perceive as being obscene, which is their right... but it does make life more difficult for webmasters like myself.

Thanks in advance.

Yes, it is relatively easy to do day-to-day tasks on Cobalt RaQ 3's. Of course there will be times when you will need to upgrade software, fix problems, etc. That will require either some linux knowledge, or a good host who will provide you with service. :)

Drake:

It is not so much as host perceive the content as obscene. The real reason is that if they host adult sites, then they will usually cause a lot of traffic to their servers, which will potentially slow down their servers. THeir other clients (non-adult) will also see the degredation of the servers and be reluctant to stay.

Usually, hosts that allow adult material have dedicated servers for only adult material, so the non-adult sites should stay unaffected.

Drake,

I have some information in my site that deals with the specifics to your question. I remember how frustrating it could be to get that type of information.

A lot of hosts stay away from adult material for a variety of reasons. They range from objection to the content, to not wanting to risk having to deal with the spamming problems (much of it comes from adult sites) to not wanting to have to deal with the additioanl systems resources many of these sites use. Adult sites can blow the averages on the amoung of bandwidth allocated.

That's part of why you see those hosts that specialize in adult sites typically charging higher rates. They are often based on expected real usage rather than allocated usage, much of which will never be utilized by many sites.