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SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 07:18 PM
I haven't been the same SINCE
two nites ago.. i was cooking dinner for my family..
and i was detered by an outside commotion..

i left the kitchen, to check what was all the commotion about


well it was a teenager (15 yrs) which decided to HANG himself on my neighbors closeline..

he was hanging..

he would have died without the assistance of the neighbors who saw him..

i offered a cool cold rag for his forehea..
he accepted..

he's just a baby..

15.. and he was ready to 'check out' of here..

let's make 'here'

a better place..

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 07:20 PM
Oh goodness :( . That really bites. Sorry you had to witness that.

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 07:23 PM
he's just a baby..

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 07:25 PM
how can ya wanna check out..

when your ass just got here.

@ 15.. he's just a baby..


how can life be soo bad.. that this 15yr old wishes to check out.

let's make 'life
a better place

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 07:30 PM
He's not a baby.

Baby <= 2yrs old
Toddler <= 6yrs old
Child <= 12yrs old
Teenager <=16
Young Adult <= 20yrs old
Adult < 60 yrs old
Senior Cit > 60 yrs old

But thats my opinion

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 07:33 PM
yes he is..

he's 15 and he' a baby

i am the mother of 12 yr old beautiful child..

she too.. is just a baby

at 12 or 15 or even `17
they are still baby's

which know not..
how this evil world can suduce them..

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 07:35 PM
You must be really old if you think a 17 yr old is just a baby. I consider my 17yr old son a young adult. But like i said. its IMHO

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 07:36 PM
goodluck with your ADULT SON

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 07:38 PM
never said he was an adult ;). Young adult is waaaaaaaaaaay differant then a straight up adult. But goodluck with your daughter :)

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 07:41 PM
what's a young adult professor?

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 07:42 PM
' what kind of power/permissions are given to a young adult?

and when do they become an adult?

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 07:48 PM
I let him do whatever he wants. It's his last year before he moves out and is on his own, therefor, he should know how to do things himself and not depend on me and my wife.

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 07:49 PM
And ill also add, he's a wonderful son and practically never gets in trouble

web docta
08-10-2002, 07:52 PM
Sorry to hear that. I just attended the funeral of an acquaintance two weeks ago. He was 56 and a successful lawyer and a really nice guy. He decided to jump off a building and end it all. He was struggling with depression for many years. He left a wife and two great kids who just graduated college a month ago. :(

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 07:53 PM
:(
My wife has depression. Never been able to get rid of it. I just hope and pray she never does anything like that.

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 08:03 PM
love is the greatest gift.......

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 08:06 PM
we're talkN about a baby.. 15yrs.

who was ready to go.. check out

if that don't move you
nothin will

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 08:07 PM
We're madly in love, we just havn't been able to get rid of the depression.

web docta
08-10-2002, 08:08 PM
My wife keeps in touch with his wife and the reality is just starting to hit the kids. At the funeral , it was like, everyone was saying how he was such a great guy and there was a lot of support but now after everything is over..... the kids are left with the realization that their dad is gone forever. They are having a really tough time dealing with it.

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 08:12 PM
yes.. WEB..

yes..

we can not 'bring them back' no matter the dna power we have.. we can't bring them back..

so sorry.. for you loss

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 08:14 PM
Im sorry to :(

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 08:18 PM
this post will most likely get cut off / banned
as this is the 'nature' of the leaders here.....

tha's okay
i do not care if you ban me.. or delete my posts which you are so qucik to do

sitetutor will live on

for " good reasons"

DoobyWho
08-10-2002, 08:30 PM
You just won't drop that will you :rolleyes:

ATST
08-10-2002, 08:30 PM
Terrible.
I'll never understand depression.
I've been through a lot. Had an abusive spouse. Was almost murdered by a stalker. Most people would have gone crazy or checked out under some of my circumstances. I actually did think about it once. But instead, I just became more determined, enlightened, admitted responsablitiy for my actions and attitude, forgave myself and the others, and moved on.
Forgiving is not the same as forgetting.

15 years is just a baby in the grand scheme of things.

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 08:31 PM
thanks.. all

the comfort is accepted..


just remember.....

that you 'are' what you write an speak


only a handful of 'real' men
have stepd' up too this contriversial plate



that's cool...

cause "life" and 'people"' wish ONLY too do bzi with folkss with a 'real soul'

see ya.......around

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 08:36 PM
17 they are stil babe's

SiteTutor
08-10-2002, 08:37 PM
teach them... in the way they should go..

ned patter
08-10-2002, 09:10 PM
So are you saying i'm a baby?;) .
Teenagers are evil people and i'm sure when you get robbed one day you will change your mind and think of them as evil like i do as well as most people in this country.
You will find guys and girls that most people that hang themselves have just commited a crime and that's why they hang there self.

Acroplex
08-10-2002, 09:31 PM
Originally posted by ned patter
So are you saying i'm a baby?;) .
Teenagers are evil people and i'm sure when you get robbed one day you will change your mind and think of them as evil like i do as well as most people in this country.
You will find guys and girls that most people that hang themselves have just commited a crime and that's why they hang there self.

Ned you are not a baby, you are just a young lad that digs Irish chics :D

ned patter
08-10-2002, 09:41 PM
Originally posted by SiteTutor
17 they are stil babe's
Yes they are babe's but you still get the odd ugly one. I'm the same as you like, i would rather kiss a 17 year old than a 40 year old.

ned patter
08-10-2002, 09:46 PM
Originally posted by timechange


Ned you are not a baby, you are just a young lad that digs Irish chics :D
I'm thinking of going on holiday to that place with the irish girls, i'll maybe even be moving there next year.
The place to find Irish holiday makers in Berwick the south of England is chemists well if you go into the store "drugs" that's the place they all go.
I was in this shop with my auntie and her boyfreind and then suddenly all these Irish girls start walking in and it was old people that worked in there and they got scared incase they robbed the shop and i said to the people working in there "There only Irish girls, there puppys" anyway with me being a bit hard they wouldn't have dared to start any trouble, not with me there, no way.

ned patter
08-10-2002, 09:47 PM
Oh wait the shops called "super drugs" sorry.

Acroplex
08-10-2002, 09:48 PM
Originally posted by ned patter

Yes they are babe's but you still get the odd ugly one. I'm the same as you like, i would rather kiss a 17 year old than a 40 year old.

Oh now don't get me started on that, I had a hot 42 yo for a gf when I was in my 20s.

Acroplex
08-10-2002, 09:49 PM
Originally posted by ned patter

.. anyway with me being a bit hard they wouldn't have dared to start any trouble, not with me there, no way.

Thanks for sharing that :D

ned patter
08-10-2002, 09:51 PM
I'm not going to give the person away but i know this 45 year old or some age like that and she takes part in the SETI thing and she is sexy like and i mean really sexy, she just got married like a week ago..
Really guys she's one good looking girl.

Darth
08-10-2002, 09:51 PM
Originally posted by timechange


Oh now don't get me started on that, I had a hot 42 yo for a gf when I was in my 20s.


lol then you came to your sences..? :rolleyes:

Acroplex
08-10-2002, 11:19 PM
Originally posted by Darth



lol then you came to your sences..? :rolleyes:

No, I grew hair on my chest :cartman:

Techark
08-10-2002, 11:28 PM
Site you are right they are just babies. I have a 26 year old daughter, a 27 year old son and a brand new baby 12 days old and they are all babies to me. Hell I am 46 and still a baby myself in the larger scheme of things.

Every life is precious, it is sad when someone gets to a point of taking a permant solution to temp problem.
Almost been there myself a few year back..

Sorry you had to witness that, hug your kids a little tighter and thank God everyday you have them in your life.

2Grumpy
08-11-2002, 05:50 AM
He hung himself in broad daylight on a clothesline? It sounds more like a cry for attention and help than a true attempt at suicide. Now had he hung himself on that line at say, 2 AM when no one would catch him, that'd be a real suicide attempt. Sounds like to me he wanted some attention and perhaps be "forced" to get help with those things he apparently couldn't work out on his own. I've seen more than a few people do that sort of thing. Hopefully he'll get some help now and learn to cope.

DoobyWho
08-11-2002, 11:16 AM
We all hope he gets the help he needs :(