I know this will be a really easy question for some users on here, but i really done know how to do it, i have brought a domain with virtualnames, and my hosting is on a private Cabolt server, how do i link the domain to the server? the only way i got it to work is by using a masked redirect which looks pants tbh.

Could anyone help plz.

Contact your house to see what your DNS servers are. Log into your control panel at VirtualNames, look for the settings for DNS or NAMESERVERS, edit the settings to reflect what your host tells you they should be.

This article should help you out:

http://www.h2hosting.com/faq_dns.php