Are there any VOIP providers (good ones) that can sell their services across all of North America? And who have resellers? And are reasonably priced?

Have a look at the VOIP directory http://www.voipproviderslist.com/

I personally have very good things to say about Vonage, but thats on a being a client of theirs side.

I am not sure if you are looking for a provider, or someone who you can resell services through.

I personally know the guys at NetLogic. They are good guys and sell wholesale VOIP across the country. You might give them a try.
www.netlogic.net

I would actually prefer a company that did not compete in the hosting business.

The company behind voipcheap.com has a wholesale divison for 5000+ minutes per month / user as per http://www.voicetrading.com/pages/index.html
http://www.voicetrading.com/en/rates.html

I am too on the hunt for an SIP (VOIP) provider, however with features/abilities URI wise similar to voxbone.com's - but without the hefty fees to be able to select the DID you want (not custom DID but select from an available list).

In any case that said, currently using les.net and voipcheap.com and happy with both (looking for another that has competitive trunk pricing, but with flat-rate and not per minute).

Hey jschurawlow that sound interesting. I also havent found that yet ;-)
Let me know when you have.

But which hefty fees are you talking about ?
If you have 100 or more DID's its not that expensive anymore ;-)

But which hefty fees are you talking about ?
If you have 100 or more DID's its not that expensive anymore ;-)

The per minute ones which many resellers impose is what I would be referencing, one of the few reasons i don't intend to do anything per-minute if it can be avoided.

In addition I doubt I'll need anywhere near 100 DID's anyhow.