Something along the lines of myspace.com or flyguycrew.com

Preferrably in php. not .cfm or. asp. (I know those two above use .cfm and .asp)

First of all, you need custom writting software. It's because there are a lot of similar sites, and I you want success, you need to offer something unique. I can help you, contact me to discuss

I really don't know of anything like that, but you may want to poke around Hotscripts.com they might have one.

AlstraSoft E-Friends

http://www.alstrasoft.com/efriends.htm

CivicSpace (http://www.civicspace.com) which is based on Drupal (http://www.drupal.org) might be worth a look.