what's the best free hosting software for NT/2k that will work with Apache?

I think you need to explain what you are looking for just a little bit. It may just be me but I have nfi what you are asking. :confused:

something that's close to plesk or any other hosting software that is free and works with Windows NT, if such thing exists, what is the best software. ;/

I'm pretty sure there isn't.

There are not many control panels for Windows at all, and those few there is is written in ASP and meant for IIS, not Apache

crappy