I am putting up a php/mysql dating site.

I have read through the boards and I have narrowed my choices down to...

terra-byte
downtownhost
aletia

i think that terra-byte might be the safest bet of the three, but they don't allow any url pointers (any one know of any free or cheap url redirectors that are good, i want to point an additional domain to my site)

downtown looks good (but is small), aletia from reading the boards seems to be having some growing pains.

any suggestions?

i have been with aletia for a while and have no complaints whatsoever.