I try to do a netstat -n to see who might be attacking the server, but it doesnt say much.. just ips.. What can i do.. HELP

What do you see when you attempt to restart it? We don't read minds ;)

Waiting for httpd to restart.... . . . . . . . . . . finished.

httpd status



httpd has failed, please contact the sysadmin.

/usr/local/apache/bin/apachectl configtest

What's the output?

Try

/etc/init.d/httpd stop
ps -aux | grep httpd

What's the output? sometimes some hung processes may prevent you from restarting. If you still see some httpd processes, do

kill -9 <process id>

Then try

/etc/init.d/httpd start

What about the server logs? You aren't giving us much information here.

just do what it says and contact your sysadmin. I'm sure a server administrator would be able to fix it.