i am installing alot of CPs and all of the goodies for my users but some of the stuff is to complicated for me, is there something that will make my life easier by helping install it all i have to do is put in the paths or something of that sort?

Yeah, it's called a "system administrator".

Just kidding. :)

I think you're looking for /usr/bin/make ;)

Take a look at www.apachetoolbox.com as they might help you out.